Not letting go

There is that saying "if you let something go and it comes back to you then it was meant to be", yeah but sometimes it is better to just let go of something not even want it back. You may want someone or something so bad, but think of it like this; has it ADDED to your happiness, success, peace of mind, family , financial stability, sex, and so on and so forth. If any of these are a NO, maybe its time to just let that bird fly. Recently I had a long talk with my cousin onhow I felt about someone. I really had to sit myself down and think about all these factors, and to be honest when me and him first got together it was great. Everything really was 100%, but then something DID happen and everything change. So now I am in the process of thinking may be its time to let it go. I am sad about it, but I do have to do the best thing for me, especially right now.